katyamarie.

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What was the scariest moment of your life?

uhhm, easily that time a large and rather sturdy friend of mine saved me from being sucked under a giant rock when we tried to swim to the cove in Nicaragua three years ago. (fuckyeahriptide!) I secretly referred to him as ‘my savior’ for months after that, ahaahaha.

either that, or that feeling at the height of an anxious, existential crisis - because at the time, it really does feel like the scariest fucking realisation of your life. (even though it’s practically the same one every time…. lmfaoo.)

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How do you feel about cocaine?

if you have a very addictive personality don’t try it.
if you are spending your parents’ money, don’t you dare.
if you don’t understand the consequences of your actions don’t try… anything.

for me, personally, I have a list of things I will never, ever touch.. but I also have a list of things I’m curious about if I promise myself I won’t ever let experimentation get out of hand. I don’t believe in pushing what you’re comfortable with just to say you’ve tried something, but maybe I’m a little naive and am comfortable with the idea of too many things. I’m beating around the bush but I think you can draw your own conclusions on how I feel about it.

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are you bisexual?

ermm. I hate labeling my sexuality, because I hate trying to define it - as putting even the vaguest of identities to my sexuality is restricting in itself, since I don’t feel right in saying that I know, in the future, what I couldn’t be attracted (physically or emotionally) to. My preferences shift randomly, sometimes simultaneously, sometimes separately.

As a general whole, however, I have sincerely “played for both teams”… as of right now, I couldn’t exactly say; it’s shifting around a bit and I’m half-coming to new understandings of what I want right now in my life and half-ignoring it, as I’ve a bit too much on my plate at the moment to be dedicating the time I’d like to contemplating and experimenting (as it isn’t the most important thing in the world right now).

Vaguely impertinent, but I don’t think it’s really all that crucial that I exactly understand my sexuality at every point in time. I understand that while it may be very distinct for others, it shifts around a bit for me - and I accept that; I have come to learn that just because it isn’t clear as crystal 100% of the time doesn’t mean that it’s illegitimate, which is something I have had a really big issue with in the past. It’s also slightly environmental (since I haven’t the energy nor time to actively pursue something specific); if something wonderful comes my way I’ll greet it open-mindedly without wondering whether it’s exactly what I want at that moment in time.

remember your manners.

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